Some people get it spot on every year. They’re organised – showering their loved one a Champagne-laden meal, expensive flowers and poetry that makes Keats sound like Pat Butcher. For the rest of us, however, anniversaries should come with a health warning. They’re a day in every couple’s calendar when the risk of low-flying objects increases ten-fold. A day when you realise you should have listened more carefully to the not-so-subtle hints being dropped for the past fortnight. And a day when a celebration of love quickly degenerates into a bout of icy stares and silent treatment. Sound familiar? Then take a read through our basic list of dos and don’ts.
Give it some thought. Times are tough out there. So obviously you shouldn’t have to go breaking the bank on gifts. But just give it some thought. Make a list of anniversary present ideas and go with your hunch. The time you’ve taken to get it right won’t go unnoticed.
Personalise it. One sure-fire way to get your partner’s attention is with a personalised anniversary gift. It’s a popular thing to do these days, and doesn’t really add anything to the cost of what you’re buying. There are loads of possibilities, too, from personalised wine, Champagne and chocolates, to personalised calendars and mugs. You could even buy an original newspaper from your wedding day.
Failing all else, buy a card or return to the location of your first date. Buying a card will only set you back a few quid. And it’ll at least show you’ve not forgotten about it. The other option is to go back to where you met or had your first date. It’s a simple gesture, but it’s also properly romantic. Unless of course you met in McDonald’s after a heavy night.
Follow these simple ‘dos’ and you can’t go far wrong. Top it off with an anniversary gift and you’ll definitely be in the good books. But remember, it’s all about the finer details as well. Guys – put on a shirt. Switch off Sky Sports. Girls – don’t take ages choosing what to wear. And don’t then ask if you look nice. The little things go a long way!
The local BP garage. Great for petrol, energy drinks and newspapers. And, as it turns out, the last refuge for forgotten anniversary gifts. Every day, men across the country make a last-minute dash to the concrete forecourt in the hope of picking up some inevitably wilted flowers, topped off with a share-size bag of Wine Gums. Don’t do it chaps.
High street vouchers. Yeah, yeah, we know – they’re the practical option. Safe. Your other half can head into town whenever they want and treat themselves to something they’re definitely going to like. And on you, no less. Sadly, it’s not quite that simple. Anniversary gifts require more thought. You can’t just take the easy route – the voucher route.
Take-out chicken served in a bucket. If you’re watching the pennies and opt for an anniversary takeaway, at least make it a good one. Any form of kebab, burger or chicken-in-a-trough just won’t cut it. Romantic they’re not. Go for something where you can at least open a bottle of red and light a few candles without it looking ridiculous.
Any of these ring a few bells? Well not anymore. No more excuses! With wedding anniversary gifts available online, your next anniversary can be sorted out in your lunch hour, from your desk and, fellas, quite possibly while munching down on the sarnie you bought from the very same BP garage only this morning.
Source by Si Wright